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Education Should Be a Priority

Ever since I was young, I knew I wanted to finish school. I have always been bright and curious, eager to learn, but life was not easy. School felt like a ladder I had to climb. Each step was hard and required all my strength. I worked part time jobs, attended tutorials, and became a student assistant just to keep going. Some nights, I came home so tired my body ached, yet I opened my books by the dim light of a lamp, determined not to fall behind. Finally, I reached the top. I finished school. I am proud not just of surviving, but of using my mind and determination to overcome the challenges. But I know not every student can climb this ladder. Many want to learn, but they do not have the support, strength, or resources to balance work and school. That is why I believe our government must pay more attention to education. I am grateful for the programs and support that exist, but sometimes the money does not reach the students who need it most. Some people take advantage of the system, ...
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Dating vs Being Married


Dating is the early stage of the relationship where both show off the good and shiny version of ourselves. It’s the time when we put our best foot forward and try to impress one another. As time passes by, we became more settled, feelings grow deeper and eventually get married. As we get more comfortable with each other, we tend to notice some changes in our partners, and I think most couples will agree.

Marriage can be wonderful. It can be an overflowing feeling of happiness. On the other hand, it can also turn out to be the worst thing that could happen to you. It’s essential to use the dating stages to get to know and be familiar with our partner. It can help decide whether you want to have that commitment. But sad to say, people hide what their true colors are.

Nobody is perfect. When you decide to live together in the same roof, that’s the time you will really know who your partner is. If you find his ugly version of himself, will you give up? It’s your choice. People have different views about this. But for me, marriage is for thick and thin. 

Below are some of the differences between dating and marriage.

1. Calling Time

During dating, we can talk hours on the phone. We can’t even notice what time is it already. When married, just a minute to ask where are you and who is with you is enough. The moment we know who is with our partner, we already know what he is up to.

2. How people walk

During dating, holding hands always brings spark to partners. When married, the moment my husband sees a shoe shop, its bye, see you later.

3. Carrying Things

During dating, the concept of chivalry is very much alive. You feel like a lady that your knight in shining armor is always there to carry your things and be at your aide all the time. When married, you argue why you have to bring a lot of things in your purse that has no use.

4. Goal Differs

When dating, both are wide spender. When married, budget becomes a thing because you both know what to prioritize.

Everyone has its own positive and negative traits. My husband always says that our relationship gets better and better like fine wine. Every day is a blessings to wake up knowing that we love each other no matter what will happen. 

I hope you’ll find your special someone and you live with heart full of happiness!

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