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We Are Like God

One day at the park, a little boy was crying. His balloon flew away, and he couldn’t get it back. An old man saw him and came close. He smiled and gave the boy a new balloon. “This is for you,” the man said. “Because you are special.” The boy asked, “Why are you giving this to me?” The man said, “Because you are like God. If God saw you right now, He would do the same.” The boy smiled and gave him a hug. We are like God—so we can love, care, and forgive. But sometimes, people forget this. Sometimes, they let the devil use them to make others feel sad or alone. If someone hurts you, remember this:  God never leaves you.  You are still made like Him, and He still loves you. Choose to be like God. Choose to love.  💛
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Say "Please Forgive Me," not "I'm Sorry"


A relationship without arguments is not a real relationship. Argument often happens because of misunderstandings. This is very true in our relationship and I’m sure ours is not the only one. The toughest part of every argument is what happens after. How do we reconcile? Who to talk first? What to say?

Before getting married, we attended our pre-cana. For those who don’t know what a pre-cana is, it is a course or consultation for couples preparing to be married in a Catholic church. Our wedding priest told us that instead of saying “I’m sorry”, tell your spouse “please forgive me”.

What is the difference between “I’m sorry” and “please forgive me”?

The easier way to ask for forgiveness is saying “I’m sorry”. But are you really asking for forgiveness or you’re just saying it to get the apology over with? Saying “I’m sorry” has no feel of sincerity on it. Actually, it asks for nothing and there is no feeling of atonement or acceptance of fault.

On the other hand, saying “please forgive me” is sincerely asking for forgiveness. It has compassion, humbleness and most important is the acceptance of mistake committed. It is a harder way of asking for an apology but a more sincere way.

I just want to share with you how my husband and I settle every after argument. If there is a time that we’ve got into a situation that we have a misunderstanding, whether it is big or small, intentional or unintentional, and then we came to a point that we don’t talk. If my husband or I admitted the mistake (fyi, usually my husband is at fault) we usually say “Please forgive me” and the other one responds “I forgive you”. Guys remember, it should be uttered with the look in the eyes to see how sincere your partner is. I know it’s corny to imagine, but it works for us for many years now. When those words had already been said, there is no more anger, bwisit feelings with each other. It’s like nothing had happened.

Anyway, those words are not only needed to be said, but couples also need to discuss what was the source of the problem, how it became wrong or how did it hurt your partner, and most especially what the solution is so that it won’t happen again.

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