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A Friendship That Crossed Borders

Some friendships are loud and obvious. Others are quiet, rare, and so genuine that you only realize their value when life tests you. This is about one of those rare friendships. She came all the way from Indonesia to Singapore just to see me and that alone says more than a thousand words ever could. In a world where people are always busy, always rushing, always distracted, finding someone who makes time for you feels almost unreal. Genuine friendship is hard to find. The kind that lasts forever is even harder. Most people don’t have time to listen. They hear you, but they don’t listen. But she listens, always. With patience. With care. Without judgment. Most people don’t want to help. They step back when things get hard. But she steps forward every single time. Helping not because she has to, but because she genuinely wants to. She is one of the kindest people I know. I once said that I have a wall around my life, a wall that protects me and keeps people at a distance. Not many can...
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Gold isn’t always inherited — sometimes, it’s made from love and sacrifice

I wasn’t born with a gold plate.

No family business. No big savings.

No shortcut to comfort.

I didn’t grow up with excess — but I grew up with dreams.
And now that I have a child of my own,
I know exactly what kind of life I want to build.

These days, it’s not about what I wear or where I go.
It’s about what I give.

I breastfeed not just because it's nourishing — but because it's a daily act of love and sacrifice.
Because sometimes, the best things we can give our children don’t come with a price tag —they come from us.

I choose to stay up late researching how to save and earn, rather than scrolling through what others are buying.
I choose to delay wants so I can give my baby what he needs.
I say no to milk tea so I can say yes to milk, diapers, vitamins.

I wasn’t born with gold,
but I’m raising someone like he was.

Not because of material things — but because he will grow up in a home where love is stable, and choices are made with purpose.

A better life is not about branded clothes or new gadgets.
It’s not having to panic when the electricity bill arrives.
It’s not needing to borrow when school starts.

It’s knowing we’ll still be okay — even when money is tight.
It’s having peace in your heart — not needing to show off online.
Even with a small income, I can rise.

I can build.
Not by earning more right away — but by wasting less.
Not by being handed wealth — but by making wise, quiet decisions every single day.

I wasn’t born with a gold spoon.
But I am raising one — with love, with discipline, and with everything I never had.

Discipline first.

Progress follows.
Love always



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