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I never expected someone like you to come into my life and completely change the way I see love. Before you, I convinced myself that love wasn't meant for me anymore. After all the disappointments and heartbreaks, I learned how to guard my heart and expect less from people. Then you came along, and everything changed. You brought back the happiness I thought I had lost. You made me smile on days when I didn't even feel like smiling. Your love gave me comfort, your presence gave me peace, and your heart became the safest place I've ever known. With you, I don't have to pretend to be strong all the time. You make me feel loved, valued, and understood in ways I never imagined possible. You see me at my best and at my worst, yet you still choose me every single day. Salamat sa pagmamahal na totoo, sa pag-aalaga, at sa pagiging bahagi ng buhay ko. Thank you for showing me that love can still be gentle, patient, and real. Every moment with you feels like a blessing. You are m...
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How to make long distance relationship work?


Long distance relationship or LDR can be very difficult. It either makes your relationship or it breaks it.

My husband and I go way back. We’ve been dating since 2003 and got married in 2012. Since we started, almost half of our time were spent separately, because of our career. It was not easy part of our relationship when we were used to be always together most of the time then suddenly because of our careers we decided to live separately. It was difficult especially for me and for my husband, boyfriend back then seemed happy with the situation (lol).

Distance disconnects bonds. It is prone to miscommunication that leads to misunderstanding in turn breaks trust. So to make this work out, you need to beat the situation. Do not be discouraged when somebody tells you that LDR won’t work. Yes, it is true, only few relationships survive this. It’s difficult but possible and rest assured, it won’t be easy. Things will be complicated. There will be situations that you cannot control. But never the less, you need to go through all of this as part of life.



LDR can be healthy if both parties take action. Everything is possible! How can you spend time together when you are a thousand miles away? In today’s generation we are fortunate to have the power of the internet. In our case, aside from constant communication, my husband and I play online games, watch movie streaming together and to my husband’s annoyance my frequent check-ups on his whereabouts. But be careful, sometimes too much chatting can be a bad thing. Avoid hours of talking. If you don’t have topic to talk about you end up arguing. Also try to know each other’s schedule so you’ll know if he’s free or not. Try to avoid arguing rather make it a fun and a healthy communication! Effective communication plays a huge factor in every relationship whether LDR or not. Honesty and understanding are vital for any relationship.

Make this LDR be an opportunity to build trust. When you survive this LDR set-up, your relationship can survive anything.



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