A few months before 2020, I bet everyone of us has already laid out plans for the coming year. Given quite a number of long weekends, w e already have a good idea for our vacation plans, how will we utilize our work leaves and where will we go during our holidays. Then enter 2020. January proved to be not a good start of the year. There were volcanoes erupting, celebrities dying and yes of course Covid-19 pandemic . Covid-19 pandemic which is caused by the Coronavirus resulted for most of us to be locked down in the comforts of our own homes. Employees were advised to work from home and stay away from the public to contain the spread of the virus. Unfortunately for some, their livelihood was taken away because working from home is not feasible and their company has no means to sustain the workforce. Experts say that the world will be going to a period of depression and many more jobs will be inevitably ...
I don’t know how to
start this when my topic is about TRUST. Actually, I had trust issues with
others but later on I’ve learned how to deal with it. Maybe because I was
seriously traumatized during my past experiences with a loveone, a friend or
even a family member. I had experiences of being emotionally hurt and betrayed.
I don’t have any words on how to describe my feelings when I gave my best
and everything to them and in the end they would disrespect me and made me feel
stupid.
It is sad to think that
everyone of us had been in the losing end of betrayal when someone who truly is
dear to us destroyed the friendship or relationship we had with them in
exchange for their own sake of happiness. What a selfish act of thinking! How
on earth can we know that the one, who we love, could do such stupid things and
destroy the trust we had built for them. Well, don’t ask me because I also
don’t know the answer (ugh!).
All I can say is that
you can’t have relationships without trust! So to make it workout, both sides
should know its value. Here are some simple things to remember on how to build
trust:
1. Always be honest.
Never ever lie. Dishonesty is one factor that kills trust and starts rusting
your relationship.
2. Be faithful all the
time. This is difficult for some people but think what will be the consequences
of your actions before entering to an affair. This takes a long time for trust
to be recovered or worse case, it can never be back.
3. Don’t be paranoid.
Stop thinking about cheating. When he really wants to do it by his own
freewill, it will happen. Only let positivity drive your mind.
4. Stop being jealous.
Too much of insecurities can harm both of you. Sometimes your partner tells you
“white lies” so that you won’t feel jealous, then when you find out that he/she
is lying, you will start to be paranoid and distrust him.
Remember trust is like a
mirror. You can fix it once it’s broken but it can never be the same again.
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