Friendship is one of the most beautiful things in life. It’s not just about having fun together or talking every day. It’s about being there for each other, even when life gets busy or hard. Some friendships are easy when everything is going well. But real friendship gets tested. It’s tested by distance, by silence, and by time. And the ones that survive these quiet tests are truly special. Sometimes, we move to new cities or take different paths. We don’t see our friends as often as we used to. But true friendship doesn’t depend on being close every day. It’s about feeling close, even when we’re far apart. One message, one memory, or one call can remind us how strong the bond still is. Life also brings silence. We don’t always have time to talk. We get busy. But silence doesn’t always mean distance. With true friends, even after long gaps, we can pick up right where we left off. There’s no pressure to explain — just an unspoken understanding that we’re still here for each other. T...
I don’t know how to
start this when my topic is about TRUST. Actually, I had trust issues with
others but later on I’ve learned how to deal with it. Maybe because I was
seriously traumatized during my past experiences with a loveone, a friend or
even a family member. I had experiences of being emotionally hurt and betrayed.
I don’t have any words on how to describe my feelings when I gave my best
and everything to them and in the end they would disrespect me and made me feel
stupid.
It is sad to think that
everyone of us had been in the losing end of betrayal when someone who truly is
dear to us destroyed the friendship or relationship we had with them in
exchange for their own sake of happiness. What a selfish act of thinking! How
on earth can we know that the one, who we love, could do such stupid things and
destroy the trust we had built for them. Well, don’t ask me because I also
don’t know the answer (ugh!).
All I can say is that
you can’t have relationships without trust! So to make it workout, both sides
should know its value. Here are some simple things to remember on how to build
trust:
1. Always be honest.
Never ever lie. Dishonesty is one factor that kills trust and starts rusting
your relationship.
2. Be faithful all the
time. This is difficult for some people but think what will be the consequences
of your actions before entering to an affair. This takes a long time for trust
to be recovered or worse case, it can never be back.
3. Don’t be paranoid.
Stop thinking about cheating. When he really wants to do it by his own
freewill, it will happen. Only let positivity drive your mind.
4. Stop being jealous.
Too much of insecurities can harm both of you. Sometimes your partner tells you
“white lies” so that you won’t feel jealous, then when you find out that he/she
is lying, you will start to be paranoid and distrust him.
Remember trust is like a
mirror. You can fix it once it’s broken but it can never be the same again.
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